I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You may feel like you need some courage to make those changes you want, to take those first steps. Doing things for the first time or stepping into the unknown can pretty frightening. So be careful about such wishes and hopes.Ĭhange can be scary.
This is also why it is hard – if not impossible – to change someone else. Review that paper and make the goal into more of your goal and know why you are working towards it for you own sake. If you still have to go on with may have started as someone else’s goal – perhaps your boss has told you to do something and you can’t just ditch that if you want to keep your job – then find your own reasons for working on that goal.īrainstorm and write them all down. If they are not yours the think about what you can do to stop working on them and spend more time on your own consciously chosen goals instead. Sit down and really think about whose goals you are working towards. Yes, you can begin but if there is no inner drive to do it then you will lose motivation easily and feel like giving up all the time after a while. If you don’t really want to make the change deep down then it will be very hard to go the distance. But is it really your wish? Or is it the wish of your parents, boss, partner, friends or society? Maybe you think you want to change something.
Hopefully you’ll find something that can help you to move forward to make that change.
MEANING OF LOVE DONT CHANGE BY JEREMIH HOW TO
In this article I’ll explore some of those common obstacles that can make change so hard and how to overcome them. There are almost certainly obstacles inside of you. Perhaps you want to improve your social skills, your health or simply your attitude and how you think. You have probably arrived here because you want to make a positive change in your life. “And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” “Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.” “Men are anxious to improve their circumstances, but are unwilling to improve themselves they therefore remain bound.”